Before I say anything out of disdain , which is not a part of my nature, I would like to finally decare that I am recovering from....

I am on my quest to finally venture out for myself on what I want to do with my life, and not having to drown and be dragged down with other people's misfortunes and horribly made decisions , resulting from advice of someone who is CLEARLY not qualified to service this type of information...

THERE, I STATED IT, and there's nothing thoes people can do or say to make things better! BECAUSE it's a SIN. Simply sin, NO!

Sin is something that takes time to deal with. Sin leades to more sin, and as hard as it is for someone like me who grew up in a Christian lifestyle to be a bystander and participant of horrible events, fights, conversations, and then having to suffer even more!!! because of someone's STUPPPID situation!!!!!!!! It's not even an eyesore. I'll paint a metaphor , it feels like having someone rip out your eyeballs, and then at the same time having 10 needles being poked in and out of 10 different spots in a rythmic fashion.

I AM FREE to do as I PLEASE in a loving home.

Here are several peices of advice,

1) If there is something that is bothering you that is personal dealing with love life, it depends how seriously you take yourself and the other person. Several questions you can ask yourself are:

Where am I, What am I taking into consideration regarding my futrue goals? With whom am I going to achieve those goals? DO I even need someone to achieve those goals with? and for what reasons?????????

If someone you have received advice from for a long time seems to have changed their views or thoughts, then find someone else to turn to in need of support. Those who will not be there for you at the moment just simply cannot be there for you. And that's that. So venture out, explore, snatch, steer, claim.

PICTURE UPDATE

November babies.....

IRENE'S 22nd BIRTHDAY

cheers at the la jolla condo my parents bought for irene to live in for school. what a lucky girl!

papa and mama

mama and irene

just the sisters celebrating at TGIF...you should be wearing a triton sweater :P

JESSICA'S 21st BIRTHDAY

TGIF

go jessica!!!

yih, andrew, and kim

andy, kim, and jess

vivian, emily, yih in hiding, and andrew chia

YIH"S 22nd BIRTHDAY

jess and evelyn                                                                                    

jackie and yih

girl picture (me, sandra, jess, emily, evelyn)                               

birthday boyy throwin up a peace sign

evelyn at urban outfitters tryin on a scarf

CHUNG'S 22nd BIRTHDAY

almost drunk birthday boy

jess and i

me, chung, and jess

me and andrew

under the cool tiki hut outside in the backyard while chung is cutting the cake

me, jess, and cutie sarah

SECRET SANTA GIFT EXCHANGE

 emily's present from vivian                                        

sandra's present from emily

vivian's present form jessica

evelyn's present from sandra

jessica's present from me

my present from evelyn

emily and i goofin around taking pictures in my room before dinner

GOOD TIMES

we played  a crazy game..i think it was called titanic or something like that...matt got owned that night

kim and andy                                                                                          

yen and her boyfriend

me and kim                                                                                         

emily owning matt

me and andrew                                                                                  

 emily lost

kim isn't happy she lost                                            

matt owned                                                                                        

sandra and vivian

jess lost tooo                                                                                     

jess and i

roomiieee shot                                                                                     

norcal buddies

D3 since freshman year                                                                     

the girlss

sandra, vivian, and jess                                                                      

em and i

guhmbeh                                                                                         

mike and evelyn

sandra and matt                                                                                  

minoo, wootae, and matt

GIRLS NIGHT AT TGIF

yummy drinks

me and ivy

GEOFF'S BIRTHDAY

charla and me

girl picture

best friends since 3rd grade

me and big chris

group picture

charla and chris

drunk birthday boy and chris

chris and i

VANGUARD

the girlss                                                                                                       

matt and andrew chia

vegas boyss                                                                                            

old lambdas

matt, me , emily, sandra, evelyn, jess, and minoo                         

another group picture 

my sexy girls                                                                                  

 matt and sandra

my girrlss minus vivian

that was october and november in a nutshell. vegas pictures to come. . .

I need to update.

My roommates are the best evar!!!!

tee hee hee

Pictures from San Diego for a one week getaway before school started. The week after that I was in norcal, but I will update with those pictures later

@ Gliderport with Irene

La Jolla

getting ready to go out!

OOO sexay!

our man on campus by the library

fruit and tea on a candle lit balcony every night before we go to sleep..it's tradition :)

with the best friend Charla from elementary school :)

school sucks! i'm at UCR for another year and possibly a quarter. i need to raise my gpa, find internships, a job, and get movin on with my life. we're getting old.

 Picture update from Sandra's 21st!!

This year, we decided to have dinner at Claim Jumper's

Liz, Nicole, and Sandra getting their drink on!

BUZZZED with a limp piece of calamari..YUMMM!

TA DA!

"Edible Creations" ( a fresh, frozen fruit boquet...an ingenious invention!)

a traditional cake :)

YAYYYY!

lo and behold...the BJ shots. they were so difficult to drink

ready...

set...

...okay we needed to take a break...:P

GO!

noone could get it, so vivian shows us how it's done!

oooh yeaah! go Vivian!

after dinner we headed over to The Ville

those are all the pictures i have from that night. too bad Sandra knocked out on us when we got home lol. nonetheless, we all had a great time spending your 21st birthday with you. WE LOVE YOU Sandra Jo!!!